Distinguishing Smart from Stupid People
I’ve given this a tremendous amount of thought. No, more. I’ve written chapters in books to this topic. No…More. I’ve devoted many years of my life to interacting with people and trying to treat all people as equal of equal intelligence. My mantra, rubric, guideline, personal manifesto, what have you, was something along the lines [...]
Purpose and Tools for Getting There
Purpose and Tools for Getting There
Defining Purpose and Tools to get there. GREAT Lucid Ideas
I asked myself what my purpose in life is. I couldn’t figure it out. So I asked, “Okay, what definitely IS NOT my purpose in life?”. I thought about it and said, “to wear socks — my purpose on life [...]
Get er Done! Why Sign and Utilize Contracts?
In the business, professional, internet, or any world with which you associate yourself. Professionalism, formality, closure and safety are all important. Read on to see why contracts move goals forward!
1. Formality. It adds to the REALNESS of the coaching relationship for BOTH the client and coach. As a coach I don’t [...]
Want to Mate, Men and Women? Be Confident for a Change!
I stumbled across a flirting, date “tip”. This was phrased as a tip and it was about self-touch. It detailed that if a woman is interested in a man, she will touch her chest, leg.
I know (because I’ve dated women and we’ve discussed how they don’t subscribe to that) that some women do [...]
Is Everything for Romance? Even with Successful Careers
just woke up, just water, wore black (Great), no food, no coffee before, energizing awesome convo. good. I saw a darren brown and david tennant clip (for darren’s tv show) and I relized that they went out into public to have a woman draw a picture and david was supposed to have predicted what she’d [...]
634 Contacts! 100% Pure, Premium Concentrated Contacts!
I had 634 which was INSANE. I whittled it down to 514, but still want to edit it and get rid of a lot. Felt awesome to sort through them (all electronic of course, Apple Address Book); if you still use paper non-electronic address books, don’t even respond, you’re too outdated. Wondered what criteria people [...]
Declining Invitations Gracefully
Staying On Top of the Game: Declining Invitations Gracefully
Treat every invitation as a mere compliment and that way declining the invitation is a lot easier to do!! When someone invites you to a group, a party, an event, or to be a member that’s a MASSIVE compliment!! They’re saying “hey, we like you, we [...]
Souther California Random Research — Random People Connections
What’s amazing to me is how so many people are connected. I was reading up on Malibu and came across Santa Monica Daily Press. GREAT magazine. And there was an article on Roman Polanski and learned that his wife Sharon Tate was murdered by Charles Manson, which is really fucked up. And [...]
Trusting Intuition and Engaging Only Trustworthy People
Trusting and Most Importantly LIVING OUT your Intuitive Knowings and UnderstandingsThe crazy and most disturbing and frustrating thing about no resources in Chicago, is that I KNEW that back in 2006 when I went to CA. I knew I didn’t want to go back to Chicago and when I went to my CC graduate [...]
The Tragic Loss of Heath — A Profound and Deep Actor
The tragic loss of Heath. This is shocking; it’s unbelievable. I feel partially mourning, partially stunned. He was an incredibly composed and immensely talented actor. My favorite role of his was in “Lords of Dogtown” as the Venice Beach “skate-boarding king”. But this, according to his father, “tragic, untimely, and [...]
Trust
Being one of the most integral components of a functioning human relationship, trust creates harmony, but too much of it engenders dangerous vulnerability. A healthy amount of trust allows two or more humans to experience openness and congruence with one another. From this one learns the benefits of altruism, the joy of selflessness, [...]
Society Vs. Culture
In his famous book, “Future Shock”, Alvin Toffler wrote, “Society is a wave. The wave move onwards, but the water of which it is composed does not”. In other words society is warped; something about it isn’t natural, it isn’t right. Waves cross thousands of miles of open ocean fetch expanse, carrying [...]
True Love Is Psychotic
True love, that genuine rare art form, is ultimately psychotic. Learn to love the wild. Embrace the rifts, tides, and currents of that change. Create your unknown and then live to understand your reality. Truth is subjective; discover your own wisdom and comprehend the desires of your intrinsic beauty. This [...]
Consecrated Congruence
If you engage guile about serious issues, you’re also engaging apathy. Using guile facetiously is fun, clever, and amusing, but about serious pursuits, guile becomes deceptive and slaughters authenticity while emerging apathy. Apathy precludes any and all opportunities of congruence. Congruence, to some people like Carl Rogers, is literally consecrated. It’s [...]
